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Getting ready for your trip to South Korea? Besides mapping out your itinerary and booking accommodations, doing a little research on the country is also part of the fun. So here’s my list of things that stood out to me in South Korea — about daily life and what you can roughly expect.
Getting up to speed on South Korea
Just before my trip to South Korea, I quickly watched KPop Demon Hunters on Netflix (great choice, because I spotted references to it everywhere!) and caught an episode of Big in Korea by professor and Korea expert Remco Breuker (in Dutch only, sorry). I prepped with travel blogs and the Lonely Planet, and also read the book Korea about the history of both Koreas (that was quite a reading commitment). So I arrived pretty well-prepared, I’d say. But nothing really prepares you for all those little things that are just a normal part of daily life for Koreans.
I wouldn’t call them culture shocks exactly, but more like surprises and quirks. And isn’t that kind of the point of traveling? To experience the differences and similarities for yourself?
These are the things that stood out to me the most during my trip to South Korea.
1 – It’s always coffee time
When I travel somewhere new, I wonder if I’ll be able to find a decent cup of coffee. In South Korea, I don’t have to worry about that. There are coffee shops absolutely everywhere, open from early morning until late at night.
When you order, pay close attention, because many South Koreans drink their coffee iced. So if you want a cappuccino, make sure to ask for it hot. And if you’re like me and don’t want cinnamon or cocoa on top, mention that too, because most places will add it automatically.

2 – Sit first, then order
In the Netherlands, it’s totally normal to walk straight up to the counter and order a coffee. But at many Korean coffee shops, that’s simply not how it works. You have to find a seat first, then order. Even if that means going up to the third floor to grab a table and then walking back down again. Koreans will calmly put their phone or bag on a table upstairs and head back down to order — seemingly without a second thought. I’d never do that back home; my stuff would be gone in minutes. But here, apparently, it’s just fine.
3 – Clean streets, no trash cans
The streets are remarkably clean, pretty much everywhere, but there are almost no public trash cans. So your empty coffee cup, banana peel, or other waste might have to travel with you for a while. A bit inconvenient, but it clearly works. I usually drop off my trash at one of the public restrooms along the way.
4 – Lots of public restrooms
The Netherlands could honestly learn a thing or two from South Korea’s public restrooms. They’re almost always clean, and there’s actually toilet paper. You find them everywhere: on the beach, in parks, along hiking trails. At bus stations and tourist attractions, you can use the facilities for free too.
5 – Everything is automated (and often contactless)
South Korea is truly the land of self-service machines. At many restaurants, you order via a screen at the entrance or at your table. Some cafés have machines where you make your own drink. And most hotels are fully contactless. Super efficient, but sometimes a little impersonal. Most machines are well translated into English, and if you get stuck, other customers or staff are usually happy to help.

6 – You can never take enough selfies
Koreans love taking photos. Of themselves, of themselves with friend 1, of themselves with friend 2, of themselves in a slightly different pose… every angle and opportunity is used. It’s completely normal to do a full-on photo shoot in the middle of the street, or to claim the best spot at a tourist attraction for several minutes while being photographed in every possible position. I feel awkward and self-conscious doing photos like that, but South Koreans don’t seem bothered at all. In fact, they’ll often rent an entire outfit specifically for the occasion!
In cities, you’ll also find photo booth shops where you can take pictures with filters and backdrops, and there are even cafés with dedicated corners set up just for the perfect selfie.
7 – No drinks without food
A few times during the trip, we wanted to just grab a drink somewhere in the evening. Turns out, that’s not as easy as it sounds. At quite a few places, you’re not allowed to only order drinks at night; you have to order food too. Really inconvenient when you’ve just had dinner. So we sometimes had to hunt around a bit to find a place where ordering just drinks was okay.
8 – Restaurant furniture with a double function
At pretty much every restaurant, there’s a drawer under the table containing the cutlery, chopsticks, and napkins. I’m used to having those on the table in a holder, or having the server bring them. In South Korea, check for a drawer first before flagging down the staff.
And your chair? It often doubles as storage. You can flip up the seat and stash your coat or bag inside. Very practical.

9 – The ppali ppali culture
“Ppali ppali” means “hurry hurry” — and you feel it everywhere. At restaurants, your food arrives within five minutes of ordering. Long, leisurely dinners aren’t really a thing here. Trains leave exactly on time. Buses move at a brisk pace. And even at the most remote bus stop, you can check real-time departure info or track the bus in an app. People themselves also walk fast. Everything just moves quickly. It’s incredibly efficient, but it does take a little something away from the human experience.
The ppali ppali culture traces back to the 1960s, when the Korean War ended, and the country was rebuilt at a breakneck pace. That same energy still drives the country today — construction, tech development, all of it moves fast.
10 – Glued to their phones
Okay, I’m on my phone too much for sure, but compared to South Koreans, I’m practically a digital minimalist. On public transit and even in restaurants, people are completely absorbed in their screens. Nobody looks up, looks around, or gazes out the window.
11 – No personal space? Not as bad as I expected
I’d read online that Koreans aren’t big on personal space — that people will stand really close to you on public transit, for example. Honestly, I didn’t notice that much at all. Sure, when the subway was packed, yes — but otherwise, not really.
12 – Bathrooms without a shower wall
Bathrooms in South Korea are… different. There’s rarely a shower wall or curtain separating the shower from the rest of the bathroom. You basically shower in the whole bathroom, so everything gets wet. Luckily, slippers are always provided, so you don’t end up with soaking socks when you use the toilet.

13 – Blue bumpers on cars
A lot of cars have small blue or gray foam blocks stuck to the doors, like a kind of bumper pad to prevent dings. I initially thought people bought these as an afterthought, but it turns out the manufacturer puts them on during transport. And apparently, many people just leave them on.

14 – Accommodations with washing machines
This was one of my favorite things: many accommodations have washing machines. Sometimes right in your room, sometimes in a shared space. So convenient when you’re traveling for a few weeks and don’t want to track down a laundromat every time. Just in case, I brought laundry detergent strips with me, but there’s usually some detergent available on-site. DELETE
15 – Claw machines are for all ages
Chances are, at some point during your South Korea trip, you’ll end up in an arcade. They’re everywhere, in every city. And it’s not just kids — groups of twenty- and thirty-somethings go too. The claw machines filled with stuffed animals are especially popular. Some people are genuinely skilled and nail it on the first try. I am clearly not one of those people. But it’s fun to watch how seriously everyone takes it, and I’ll admit: it’s pretty addictive.
16 – Korean clothing style
Lots of athletic wear, lots of baggy pants, lots of sneakers, and a ton of Crocs. That’s pretty much the vibe in the more urban areas of South Korea. Even when going out to eat, you don’t need to dress up. You can, of course, but you really don’t have to.
One thing worth knowing if you’re a woman: short shorts (even hot pants) are totally fine in South Korea, but most Korean women tend to keep their shoulders covered. So no spaghetti straps. If a dress is sleeveless, they’ll often wear a t-shirt underneath.
17 – Always bring an umbrella
I traveled through South Korea in October, and it was unfortunately a lot wetter than I’d been led to believe. The Koreans are prepared for it, though. Everyone carries an umbrella, and many accommodations offer umbrella loans. At the entrance to museums, restaurants, and other indoor spaces, there’s often a machine where you can dry your umbrella or get a plastic sleeve for it so it doesn’t drip everywhere.

More South Korea inspiration

Useful links for your South Korea trip
- Accommodation. Always handy is Booking.com, but compare prices. Trip is often much cheaper in South Korea. Rather stay in a hostel? Try HostelWorld.
- Activities. You can book the best tours and activities with GetYourGuide, Klook and Viator. You can book ‘free’ walking tours at Freetour and cool food tours at Secret Food Tours.
- Attractions and museums. For 5% off museums and attractions, use discount code KIMOPREIS22 at Tiqets.
- Car rental. Compare your options at Discover Cars and Rentalcars.com.
- Flights. Compare all your options! Be sure to check Expedia, Kiwi and Trip.
- Guide books. I love the practical guides by Lonely Planet, for sale at Amazon.
- Package deals. Rather go on a catered trip? Check out your options at Expedia and CheapOair for example.
- SIM card. Beware of unexpectedly high phone and internet costs. Buy a local SIM card when you arrive, or arrange one online via Airalo. Use the code THISIS8469 for a discount.
- Train and bus. Buy your train tickets directly on the Korail site and intercity buses also directly via this site. Some trips can also be booked on
Klook or via12Go . For local transport in the city, you use a T-Money card.
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